( dress: Ellie Saab)
Viata e un podium. Traim intr-o
societate atat de critica incat chiar si atunci cand mergi pana la colt dupa
paine, simti nevoia sa te aranjezi putin, ca poate-poate te intalnesti cu vreun
fost sau vreo colega fandosita de liceu.
In ziua de azi conteaza
mai mult cum arati decat ce zici sau ce faci. Femeile frumoase au cele mai mari
sanse la faima, lux si par sa traiasca o viata fabuloasa la care tu doar
visezi. Ghici ce? Si tu esti frumoasa! Da-da, ai citit bine! Si tu esti
frumoasa! Trebuie doar sa crezi asta! Si sa “lucrezi” putin…
Helena Rubinstein spunea
ca “nu exista femei urate, doar femei lenese”. De obicei aceste femei “lenese”
se desconsidera. Prefera sa creada ca nu au fost inzestrate de la natura cu
anumite calitati, sa invidieze in secret femeile frumoase, fara sa stie ca
frumusetea se mentine cu “munca” Si aici nu ma refer neaparat la “bisturiu” sau
la vizite costisitoare la salon.
Schimbarea trebuie sa vina
prima data din interior. Trebuie sa incepi prin a lucra la increderea in tine.
Daca tu nu te vezi frumoasa, nici ceilalti nu o vor face! Chiar si acele femei
pe care le admiri au probleme cu increderea in sine. Multe ajung sa nu fie
niciodata multumite de aspectul fizic. Fac schimbari drastice si ireversibile
si ajung sa se urateasca.
Dupa ce ai lucrat la
increderea in tine, poti incepe sa lucrezi la aspectul fizic. Sa iti creezi
propriul stil. Sa renunti la kitsch si sa investesti in tine. Nu bani, ci timp
si sentimente.
Frumusetea nu se cumpara,
frumusetea se descopera si se mentine.
Viata pe podium e grea,
Cenusareaso, dar nu imposibila! Trebuie doar sa “lucrezi” putin…
Cu drag,
Anca
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(EN) Life is a runway. We live in a
society so critical that even when you go to your corner shop, you feel the
need to polish up that maybe you will meet up with an ex or a foppish friend
from high school.
Today, how you look is more
important than what you say or what you do. Beautiful women have the best
chance at fame, luxury and seem to live the fabulous life that you only dream
at. Guess what? You are beautiful too! Yes, you read right! You are
beautiful too! You just have to believe that! And "work" a little...
Helena Rubinstein said that
"there are no ugly women, only lazy women." Usually these “lazy"
women have awful opinions about themselves. They prefer to believe that they
were not endowed by nature with certain qualities and secretly envy beautiful
women without knowing that they need to “work” for beauty. And I do not mean
necessarily to have plastic surgery or take expensive visits to the salon.
Change comes from the inside
first. You need to start working on your confidence. If you don’t think of yourself
as a beautiful person the others will think the same. Even those women you
admire have issues with their self-confidence. Some of them are never satisfied
with how they look. They make drastic and irreversible changes until they
become ugly.
After you have worked on your
self-confidence, you can start working on your appearance. Create your own
style. Start investing in yourself. Not money, but time and feelings.
You do not simply buy beauty,
beauty is found and maintained.
I suggest we learn together how
to live a beautiful life, how to feel beautiful, how to take care of ourselves
and how to build our own fabulous life.
Life on the runway is hard, Cinderella,
but is not impossible! You just have to "work” a little…
Love,
Anca
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